The Importance of the Box...

I'm talking jigsaw puzzles here. Now, I'm not one for jigsaws, the ones that come in boxes. Maybe because I'm too busy sorting out puzzles all my very own on a daily basis. But it was while I was sorting out one of these daily dilemmas that I started to see how the way to solve problems successfully is much like sitting down to do that 1,000-piecer your well-meaning Auntie got you for Christmas when you were about 8. You know, the one with the sailing boats or the two kittens sitting in a basket of wool.

So, what do you do when you do a jigsaw? Well, first you tip all those little (irritating) pieces out on the carpet or table or wherever. (I remember my grandma's carpet, big intricately coloured and patterned - nightmare for jigsaws). Then what do you do? You start laboriously turning all those little pieces over so that the picture side is face up. Maybe you start sorting out which are edge pieces, which are corner pieces, maybe you group together the pieces that are obviously sky (or kitten) versus sea (wool).

And then you look at the box. Or rather the picture on the box. Picture on the box, pieces on the carpet, picture on the box... you've done jigsaws, you know what I mean.

One particular problem I was trying to sort out recently was how many hours and human beings it was going to take to cover childcare over a 24 hour period. Every solution I came up with ultimately drew a blank. Just as I was about to curl up in the fetal position and pull the duvet over my head I had a thought. I don't even know what the picture is, let alone where all the pieces go. Once I realised that it all became relatively simple.

So, then. Let's say the first rule of solving a problem or creating a plan is: what is the picture, the one you are trying to create? What does the solution to your problem look like, in other words.

Once you know what your picture is, the rest is straightforward enough. You start looking at the pieces you've got on the table/carpet. These pieces - these are your resources. In my case, these were friends, family, babysitters, playgroups I could somehow wrangle/cajole and bribe into helping me out.

Next step, unless you really enjoy being hard on yourself, (in which case, I say go for it) you create the framework. You line up all those edge pieces, match them together until you've created your frame inside which all the other pieces will go.

Your frame is the parameter of your plan. You've dismissed silly ideas, impractical ideas, ideas that require too much money, time, energy... these belong outside the parameter. You don't need to worry about them any more.

So then you're left with the pieces that do work. You slowly examine each piece/resource... where does it fit in this picture, the picture on the box, your plan? Sometimes, those puzzles are easy-peasy: 25 pieces, 50 pieces; sometimes they're the doozies, 1000 pieces - these take time and effort and lots of thought.... and patience.

But once you have the picture - if you have the picture - it's simply a matter of taking each step one piece at a time.

Back to the box. It's got the picture on it. The picture is also the theme. Like me you might have lots of different jigsaws relating to different themes in your life: childcare, work, friends, family, children, health. And every day or week or month, life will throw up a particular challenge that needs sorting out and piecing together. Keep referring back to the picture... it'll keep you on the right track.

Hoping they're all 25-piecers...


Dawn